- Lorraine Spiotta
- Nov 3, 2020
- 1 min read
Autonomy of the patient will ALWAYS be honored by Individualized Care Plans.
The patient can change their mind about care.
Distressing conditions such as pain or depression, if contributing to loss of interest in food/drink of other activities, will be treated.
Personal beliefs, cultural norms, and quality of life are all factors in decision making with patient and family.
Hospice staff educates facility staff and other caregivers on patient’s end of life plans.
Hospice never aims to end life or hasten the end of life, and water/food is never withdrawn for this reason or against a patient’s will.
The patient is allowed a death that is as natural as possible and that every moment before that point is as comfortable, rich, and spiritually full.

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- Lorraine Spiotta
- Nov 2, 2020
- 1 min read
Updated: Nov 8, 2020

Patient has a life expectancy of 6 months or less (“a six-month diagnosis”), if the illness runs its normal course.
Desire of patient and/or family to stop uncomfortable or ineffective treatments.
General Signs and changes in Symptoms in the past 3-6 months:
Recent decline in functional status
Weight loss, >10% over 6 months
Hospitalizations or ER visits
Infections (UTI, URI, sepsis)
Pain, nausea, vomiting, SOB, etc.
Increased confusion
Bedbound/Geri-chair/falls
Decreased appetite
Skin Breakdown - Decubitus Ulcers
If you have questions about Hospice and if it is right for you or your loved one call or text me at: 201-906-1274.
I am here to help.
*Source Hospice of New Jersey.
- Lorraine Spiotta
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1 min read
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